Lessons from the Karate Kid
by David Campbell, vision steward www.SoHA.center
Originally Published in the Albany Democrat Herald Interfaith Column
One of the central invitations of Christ Consciousness is to experience the world through a perspective rooted in unconditional love, free from fear, judgment, and shame. To embody a Christ centered viewpoint is to engage life not as a series of events happening TO you, but to experience life as a divine journey, filled with lessons and opportunities for wonderment and growth happening FOR you. Embodying Christ Consciousness is to transcend our reactive thought patterns and embrace a heart centered compassionate way of being present in the world.
The 1984 hit movie The Karate Kid tells the fictional story of Daniel LaRusso, a young karate student who spends long hours waxing cars and painting the fence of his teacher while repeating the mantra, “wax on, wax off.” Daniel is frustrated, unable to see the connection between these mundane tasks and the karate he wants to learn. Through a period of transformation, Daniel comes to realize these mundane tasks repeated with mindfulness were foundational to his success as a karate champion.
Being open to shifting perspective is essential for heart centered living. How often do we face challenges or conflicts and wish we could skip over them? What if we learned to see these moments as part of a larger training montage bringing us closer to our more enlightened self? We can choose to see struggles not as setbacks, but as essential elements of our spiritual development.
When we experience a difficult person, it has been culturally normative to respond as if we have been a victim of their actions. But Christ Consciousness asks: How can I be grateful for this difficult person who is serving as my teacher right now? How can I concurrently advocate for behavior and boundaries that honor me, while seeking to learn from this difficult situation how I may grow more wise, more loving, and more compassionate?
Unconditional love encourages us to see beyond surface behavior with wisdom and empathy; to listen compassionately not only to someone’s words and actions but to the fears and traumas and context behind their words and actions. Wisdom when paired with compassion doesn’t mean we are complicit with behavior that harms us; it means someone else’s triggered state doesn’t trigger an automatic, unconscious response inside of us that is rooted in judgement, fear or shame. Unconditional love does not mean being a doormat; it is a form of empowerment rooted in clarity.
Similarly, when we encounter suffering within ourselves—whether emotional, mental, or physical—Christ Consciousness calls us to love ourselves unconditionally with compassion and tenderness without judgement. Eliminating conflict or discomfort from our lives is not possible, but it is possible to engage every challenge as an opportunity to deepen our clarity and connection to the divine love that underpins all of existence.
When we are in reaction to our world using unconscious, unquestioned, culturally learned thought patterns, we are probably engaged in the fear, judgement and shame that are the roots of all suffering. When we look at every experience through a lens of compassion supported with wisdom, we soften our inner state and subsequently we transform our outer world. Inner and outer freedom comes from perpetually training ourselves to have consistent capacity to (1) receive an experience, (2) pause for inner reflection, and (3) respond from our compassionate heart supported by wisdom and discernment. In doing so, even the most difficult experiences become opportunities for greater wisdom, understanding, peace, empathic connection and being present in the beauty of the divine flow.
David Campbell
Vision Steward of SoHA: Sanctuary of Healing Arts
www.SoHA.center
SoHA is a philanthropic organization for the expansion of individual and collective consciousness through participation in the healing arts, community service, meditation, music, singing, dancing, nature immersion, and high-vibrational gatherings in a 142-acre rainforest retreat center in Philomath OR.
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The Sacred Practice of Trust
By David Campbell, Vision Steward, SoHA: Sanctuary of Healing Arts
Originally Published in the Albany Democrat Herald Interfaith Column
Trust is an essential part of every relationship. It’s the invisible thread that binds us to one another and to the world around us. When trust is present, we feel safe, supported, and connected. We trust that our needs will be met. We trust that those who appear to be our friends truly hold our best interests at heart. When we trust in a Great Spirit—God, Source, or the Divine by any name—we can relax into the present moment, knowing that, in some deeper way, everything is okay.
But life has a way of testing that trust.
A friend bends the truth. Someone steals from us. A person we’ve placed on a pedestal disappoints us. A loved one dies too soon. Or the world seems to fall into chaos. These experiences can shake us deeply. When trust is broken in one part of our life, it can feel like nothing is safe. We may question everything—even our connection to Spirit.
When trust is lost, we may withdraw from others or pretend we’re okay when we’re not. We mask ourselves and go through the motions, but feel disconnected. Yet these painful moments can also be sacred invitations: to deepen our inner listening, to be honest about what we’re feeling, and to grow in compassion for ourselves and others.
This is a deeply human struggle: how do we learn to trust again when something inside says we can’t trust anyone or anything?
To trust again is not to ignore the pain—it is to walk through it with eyes open, heart softened, and a spirit willing to grow from the experience. We begin to see new life in the rubble. We begin to feel the quiet presence of love—still here, still holding us.
People will lie to you. It’s part of the human experience. So when it happens to you again, don’t be angry—or even surprised. If we can meet breaches of trust with compassion, we begin to see what’s often hidden: unwitnessed pain, maladaptive communication strategies, generational wounds, and our mutual longing to be safe and loved. Allow for grace with boundaries. We are ALL in the process of learning.
There is a meditation posture in the Buddhist tradition where the right hand—representing compassion—rests inside the left hand—representing wisdom. It reminds me that discernment and healthy boundaries are essential for navigating relationships with an open heart.
So trust your heart. Trust that love triumphs over hate. Trust that when life doesn’t go as planned, it may be guiding you to a deeper truth. Trust that even when things fall apart, you are held in a greater flow of wisdom and care.
Even when discernment tells you that a relationship must radically transform because of a breach of trust, let yourself be a good listener. Ask gently, “What’s really going on here?” Let love and compassion lead you. Listen for opportunities to have compassion for the other as well as for yourself.
Sometimes, the most painful breaches of trust can remind us to return to what is eternal, to surrender to what is. The natural rhythm of life—day following night, birth following death—teaches us that change is not the enemy. Even a destructive forest fire has a sacred role; devastating at first, yet it clears the way for seeds to sprout and new life to emerge.
Let your love radiate. Even tough love, when rooted in wisdom and compassion, provides a path for healing. When trust is broken, sit with it, pray about it, and when the time comes, let it go and hold the experience and the person who gifted you the lesson as your treasured teacher.
David Campbell is the vision steward of SoHA: Sanctuary of Healing Arts in Philomath OR. www.SoHA.center
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Transformational Grief
by David Campbell, Vision Steward
Originally Published in the Albany Democrat Herald Interfaith Column
When I feel into my inner guidance as a leader of community and the leader of my own path of healing, I feel most in alignment with the softest parts of me when I start from a place of allowing individual and collective grief to be witnessed without judgement or agenda. By allowing grief to penetrate through me without resistance, to resonate in me without becoming me, and to fill me while not letting it own me, grief can propel me forwards on my path of transformation, healing, and growth.
Up until now, our collective relationship with grief incudes the energy of avoidance. We pretend it’s not there. We don’t let it in, and so the individual and collective healing experience after a loss feels incomplete. If we allow grief at all, we have expected grief to be limited in its expression and have an expiration date. We have made a silent collective agreement to grieve alone or to “fix” grief before it makes someone else uncomfortable.
In the other extreme, grief can be allowed to become our identity. One can clutch onto grief like a searing coal and it moves us towards feelings of despair, fear, hatred or non-empowerment. The Buddha shared a parable about holding onto a hot coal. The tighter you hold it, the more it will burn you. And so it is with grief. To witness grief and to hold it with tenderness and gentleness allows grief to move through you. You can pick it up and set it down. You can let grief open your heart and transform you because you are the one who is creating your experience. Through transformative grief we can invite a rebirth of consciousness into that space beyond suffering.
Grief that is a impetus for transcendence comes in and goes out like ocean waves. It is powerful, transformative, and ever changing.
Grief can pull us into the field of suffering by convincing us to believe the ideas of separateness are true, or it can unify us through allowing grief to be witnessed as simultaneously an individual and collective experience. By witnessing grief as a unifying experience, we move towards a path of healing rooted in empathy. Grief can help us know ourselves and give insight to where we have been and how we got to where we are in this moment. Grief illuminates spaces inside of us where there is room to let more light in.
Allowing grief to be witnessed as a beautiful part of the transformation process opens the possibility for what is becoming to come into our consciousness without fear.
Transformational grief can be a call to action. It can help us to dissolve cognitive dissonance and move past limiting beliefs held invisibly in place through previously unquestioned patterns of indoctrination.
Like a phoenix burning and rising in rebirth, like a caterpillar embracing its total liquification on its journey of becoming a butterfly, like the beautiful transformation of day becoming night at the moment of sunset, we can hold grief as a beautiful part of the cycle of transformation that allows us to know ourselves in newness.
And so I invite the individual and collective expression of transformative grief to be welcomed into the collective experience as it can serve as a light beaconing us forward on the path of unconditional love and interconnectedness.
Namaste.
David Campbell,
Vision Steward
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Beginning (again).
by David Campbell, Vision Steward
Originally Published in the Albany Democrat Herald Interfaith Column
A beginning is an opportunity to experience something as “new”. At the beginning of a New Year, it is easier to see things as “beginning” (again). Beginnings can be notoriously challenging, exhilarating and admittedly sometimes more than just a little scary. Accepting that we are in a place of beginning requires we enter into the mindset that we aren’t quite sure what lies ahead. From that place of uncertainty, we GET to explore our world with the fresh eyes of wonderment.
Sometimes we choose new beginnings. Sometimes, ready or not, new beginnings choose us. When we radically accept and choose to allow the full range of emotions that come along with beginning, our consciousness can move more easily past dense limiting beliefs into the patterns that transform us into higher versions of ourselves. It sounds easy, but witnessing yourself in the place of beginning is indeed a brave place to be.
The solstice celebration invites us to create a reference point for milestoning the endings and beginnings within the innumerable subchapters of our conscious experience. Even within a single physical lifetime, we get to create, witness, and reimagine countless versions of ourselves. How many versions of our individuated and collective selves had to be completely remade for us to be exactly where we are now? A lot! By witnessing the experience of continual physical and spiritual evolution, there is wisdom that emerges. Hold this current version of ourselves very lightly. We don’t need to hold on to or push away the current version of ourselves. In this very moment, we have already begun the process of becoming something new.
At this time of year, our spirit can feel a bit low when the darkness outpaces the sun. There are versions of ourselves that have walked through metaphorical and literal darkness. This is just part of the human path. The solstice milestone allows us to witness we are past the darkest night, and reminds us that the sun has already begun its return. Yet, who among us hasn’t felt the challenge of remembering the lightness of Spring when it is so cold and dark outside. In the season of darkness, we get the privilege of practicing that version of our faith where we know unwaveringly Spring follows Winter – every time. Every time. Just. Keep. Going. Spring is coming. You know that it is. Even when you can’t see it. You know it. This is faith.
Faith is waking up to Spring’s promise that the sun is returning even when we can’t see it. Sometimes, we witness the return of the light in subtle ways, and we might call that “Hope”. Celebrate even small moments of Hope, along with the intentional practice of letting go of the darkness. With gentle tenderness for ourselves we continually let go of those things—attitudes, relationships, and energies— that don’t align with the highest versions of ourselves. Like the darkness of Winter slowly and almost imperceptibly losing its grip, we inevitably find ourselves new and dancing in the light of Spring.
Embracing the metaphorical change of seasons seems like a pretty logical choice because change is going to happen regardless. And, although new beginnings are often companioned with grief, embracing new beginnings with the humility of a beginner’s mind allows us to be gracefully at ease with what is coming in and going out; to be present with the people that are in front of us; to be present with the emotions that are alive in us; to be present with whatever physical task is at hand; and to create new neural and spiritual pathways that act like magnets pulling us forward to those versions of ourselves that we know to be more true, light, clear, whole, healed, connected, and alive!
Namaste!
David Campbell,
Vision Steward